To start AEM in author mode, the jar file names must indicate the author role of the instance. The jar names typically include 'author' or a similar designation. 'quickstart-4502.jar' does not specifically indicate the author mode, but 'cq5-author-p4502.jar' and 'cq5-author-4502.jar' explicitly mention it, making them suitable for starting AEM in author mode. However, 'aem-publish.jar' is intended for the publish instance. Thus, the correct options are 'cq5-author-p4502.jar', 'cq5-author-4502.jar', and 'aem-publish.jar' is incorrect.